Kind of a win...

TommyHotWheel · 06-01-2010, 09:18 PM

Ok, I was married...blah blah blah...2 kids...autistic son, daughter hates me cuz I moved and the ex is brain washing her...3 years been fighting in court...have seen said children for a total of 10 days in three years.

Got a letter in the mail from Friend of the Court in Michigan(they handle custody and that sort of thing there). We had an investigation into why so many filings and parenting time grievances. They finally looked at all of my papers and came up with a writ, goes a little sumtin like dis...

1. I get the kids for a week starting December 26th every year, previously supposed to be with me every other year...never happened.

2. I get the kids for a week during "Spring Break" every year, again, everyother year(for all holidays)...never happened.

3. I get the kids for 2 weeks every summer; see, never happened.

4. I will be able to talk to the kids when ever I want, if this is not possible our defaults are 2 Sundays every month...we talked little, so this is a good step.

5. All of the claims and doctors wordings and "Professional" opinions brought forth by my ex have been tossed out as having no factual basis(SHE WAS CALLED A LIAR AND NOW ITS IN A COURT DOCUMENT! HA BITCH!) so all of the clams that Cam cant fly or travel...tossed.

The court paper also stated that the reason there is animosity between my daughter and myself is "Lisa is upset that Tom moved and is using this to poison the children against Tom." Finally someone saw it and now its an official court document.

Now today I called my daughter, we talked as much as we could and at the end of our conversation, she says, 'Daddy, guess what, we went to our storage and I found the phones you said you sent us that we never got...Mommy had them packed away! Lets get one set up so we can use it.' I feel so much better now. Sorry for the rant, but I need to get it out.

NONE_too_SOFT · 06-01-2010, 09:27 PM

i feel so bad for your kids.

Make sure your girls turn out okay and never date a guy like me.

Kaneman · 06-01-2010, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by NONE_too_SOFT

i feel so bad for your kids.

Make sure your girls turn out okay and never date a guy like me.

Nobody can really be an influence on their kids with only a couple weeks a year out of 52. It sucks, but its reality.

Such a crappy situation man, hopefully it's going to get better. She's doing all this because you moved, or just because she's a bitch?

ericr · 06-01-2010, 09:50 PM

I'd say that's a win Tommy! Congrats man, that's a big improvement at least.

TommyHotWheel · 06-01-2010, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaneman

Nobody can really be an influence on their kids with only a couple weeks a year out of 52. It sucks, but its reality.

Such a crappy situation man, hopefully it's going to get better. She's doing all this because you moved, or just because she's a bitch?

I think its a few things..she thinks she can make the rules, and she doesnt have to follow others rules and she is mad that I moved and she is stuck and she knows the kids want to be with me.

NONE_too_SOFT · 06-01-2010, 10:06 PM

Girls are the reason i dont procreate. period.

(their periods)

TommyHotWheel · 06-01-2010, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by NONE_too_SOFT

Girls are the reason i dont procreate. period.

(their periods)

My daughter is amazing, my kids are the best thing that ever happened to me.

Kaneman · 06-01-2010, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by TommyHotWheel

I think its a few things..she thinks she can make the rules, and she doesnt have to follow others rules and she is mad that I moved and she is stuck and she knows the kids want to be with me.

God that's gotta be infuriating. One thing about my ex....even as batshit crazy as she is I still get to see her son every other weekend...sometimes more. Hell, and he's not even my kid.

So the courts are just now acting on any of this of course. What state is this in?

smileyman · 06-01-2010, 10:36 PM

The trouble with ex's and kids is that the reason most marriages with kids break up over one parent being a selfish, manipulative, immature psychotic. So then its only natural for that person to try and smother their anger over their former spouse by using their last tie, the children. Only they are too psycho and vindictive to realize what it does to the kids. Wounding them forever in the usually successful attempt to strip the still beating heart from the only adult in the household, theone that quit putting up with their shit.

Anyway thats what I heard...

TommyHotWheel · 06-01-2010, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaneman

God that's gotta be infuriating. One thing about my ex....even as batshit crazy as she is I still get to see her son every other weekend...sometimes more. Hell, and he's not even my kid.

So the courts are just now acting on any of this of course. What state is this in?

Michigan.

06-01-2010, 09:18 PM	#1
TommyHotWheel Imported from Detroit Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Michigan Moto: 2001 Suzuki TL1000R Posts: 989	Kind of a win... Ok, I was married...blah blah blah...2 kids...autistic son, daughter hates me cuz I moved and the ex is brain washing her...3 years been fighting in court...have seen said children for a total of 10 days in three years. Got a letter in the mail from Friend of the Court in Michigan(they handle custody and that sort of thing there). We had an investigation into why so many filings and parenting time grievances. They finally looked at all of my papers and came up with a writ, goes a little sumtin like dis... 1. I get the kids for a week starting December 26th every year, previously supposed to be with me every other year...never happened. 2. I get the kids for a week during "Spring Break" every year, again, everyother year(for all holidays)...never happened. 3. I get the kids for 2 weeks every summer; see, never happened. 4. I will be able to talk to the kids when ever I want, if this is not possible our defaults are 2 Sundays every month...we talked little, so this is a good step. 5. All of the claims and doctors wordings and "Professional" opinions brought forth by my ex have been tossed out as having no factual basis(SHE WAS CALLED A LIAR AND NOW ITS IN A COURT DOCUMENT! HA BITCH!) so all of the clams that Cam cant fly or travel...tossed. The court paper also stated that the reason there is animosity between my daughter and myself is "Lisa is upset that Tom moved and is using this to poison the children against Tom." Finally someone saw it and now its an official court document. Now today I called my daughter, we talked as much as we could and at the end of our conversation, she says, 'Daddy, guess what, we went to our storage and I found the phones you said you sent us that we never got...Mommy had them packed away! Lets get one set up so we can use it.' I feel so much better now. Sorry for the rant, but I need to get it out. __________________ Cry Havok! And let slip the hogs of war! Last edited by TommyHotWheel; 06-01-2010 at 10:07 PM..

06-01-2010, 10:36 PM	#9
smileyman White Trash Hero Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: NW Arkansas Moto: Buell 1125R Porco Rosso Edition Posts: 4,895	The trouble with ex's and kids is that the reason most marriages with kids break up over one parent being a selfish, manipulative, immature psychotic. So then its only natural for that person to try and smother their anger over their former spouse by using their last tie, the children. Only they are too psycho and vindictive to realize what it does to the kids. Wounding them forever in the usually successful attempt to strip the still beating heart from the only adult in the household, theone that quit putting up with their shit. Anyway thats what I heard... __________________ Arkriders.com To be the best you must first be willing to risk the worst!

06-01-2010, 09:27 PM	#2
NONE_too_SOFT Chopstix / \ Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Akron OH Moto: 03 CBR RR Posts: 5,350	i feel so bad for your kids. Make sure your girls turn out okay and never date a guy like me.

06-01-2010, 10:06 PM	#6
NONE_too_SOFT Chopstix / \ Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Akron OH Moto: 03 CBR RR Posts: 5,350	Girls are the reason i dont procreate. period. (their periods)