Dating Situation?

[Over200]

Originally Posted by Hondahugger

I know that anyone that I've been in a realationship with startede off as friend and i saw where it went from there,. I can't just casually date. It just doens't work out for me. Bootie calls aren't my thing and neither is a friend with beneifits. it's either there or it's not,.

Ya see there's a 10%'r!!

[LOZ]

Originally Posted by Hondahugger

I know that anyone that I've been in a realationship with startede off as friend and i saw where it went from there,. I can't just casually date. It just doens't work out for me. Bootie calls aren't my thing and neither is a friend with beneifits. it's either there or it's not,.

I agree with this Honda loving hottie who never comes out to play volleyball cause she knows she would get her ass handed to her.

[rogue]

Originally Posted by Hondahugger

I know that anyone that I've been in a realationship with startede off as friend and i saw where it went from there,. I can't just casually date. It just doens't work out for me. Bootie calls aren't my thing and neither is a friend with beneifits. it's either there or it's not,.

Yep, that's me too.

[Hondahugger]

Originally Posted by Rogue

Yep, that's me too.

at least someone agrees with my logic. I was waiting. !!!!!

Originally Posted by LOZ

I agree with this Honda loving hottie who never comes out to play volleyball cause she knows she would get her ass handed to her.

Thank you Carlos!

[rogue]

Originally Posted by Hondahugger

at least someone agrees with my logic. I was waiting. !!!!!

Some people may be able to juggle more than one *casual* relationship, but I can't. By the same token, I don't date either. I prefer to stay single, stay out of the bullshit, the drama, etc.

[Corey]

I've decided to pay hookers for sex. At least I know exactly what's going to happen and exactly where things are going. I see no moral obligation with cutting out the restaurant/movie middle men and just putting the money directly into the hands of someone who will guarantee me some sex. It beats gambling on the whims of some stupid headcase playing games to boost her fragile sense of self worth.

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by CrazyKell

This is my reasoning in telling him. I want to be exclusive and I think it is moving in that direction. I don't want him to find out after the fact or from someone else.

I don't think I "owe" him anything and I wouldn't think the he owes me anything. But I want to start this honestly. I just don't want to fuck it up by telling him.

But, if "you" want to be exclusive, what are "you" doing sleeping with someone else?

I go with don't ask - don't tell.

[Mr Lefty]

first... figure out where your head is... who do you really wanna be with.

then... be honest. all that not telling them is gonna do is 1. make it worse if they do find out eventually. and 2. make you feel like shit.

if it fucks up what you and he have... then it's fucked up. but at least it was now rather than a year or more down the road and you have more invested.

[t-homo]

Fuck that. Don't tell him unless he asks. If its nothing exclusive, he can't be mad at all.

[Hondahugger]

Originally Posted by Rogue

By the same token, I don't date either. I prefer to stay single, stay out of the bullshit, the drama, etc.

I will just stay single and avoid the heartache. It hurts to fucking much!