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Originally Posted by Captain Morgan

I think the key is to be sensitive when the situation calls for it, to be honest about who you are and what you want, to listen without being afraid to speak your mind, and to be respectful of the woman as a person. All of this can easily be done without being a pansy. I doubt SM is a pansy, anyway. I do agree that too much emotion and being too soft is bad, but I also think being too much of a hardass is bad. Show some emotion and some respect, and don't be too predictable. I've just recently started figuring all of this out after being the nice guy that got dumped on too much and then the asshole who didn't like the kind of women that assholes end up with.

Yea, I see what you both mean but the problem is that all of these girls were with the assholes before... at least according to them. Does that mean that Rae was the "wrong type a woman" before? Was Azoom? Archen? These girls all claim to have been married to assholes in the past. Does that say something bad about them as people? I don't know but one thing is certain, the approach I use now a. keeps me in young, decent looking pussy and b. keeps me from killing someone or getting my guts kicked in by some bitch!