Vasectomy.

[z06boy]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Yea my wife's lawyer had very little to say during the divorce!

Well at least you didn't kill her when you first heard the great news.

Man that had to be a trip to deal with for both of you but you definitely seem like the kind of guy that can jump up...dust yourself off and say...NEXT !!!!

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by R6Chick

Hahahahahahaha.

It's like buying a car without telling your spouse because you think they wouldn't want you to buy it.

Ha I had a girlfriend do that once. She hid the truck at her parents and drove her old truck back and forth to our house.

[pauldun170]

Originally Posted by Triple

Just for the record, I have spoken with my wife about having a vasectomy. She said she would divorce me if I went through with it.

Divorce isn't really an option for either of us right now. It would turn our lives upside down and could literally leave one or both of us homeless.

Just get it over with. If it's amicable it shouldn't be too expensive and if it's a living arrangement thing (neither of you can afford to live on your own) then you guys can work something out while you both get on your feet.

Just get it done.

the longer you wait, the older you get...

Life is short.

[Homeslice]

Originally Posted by Triple

Divorce isn't really an option for either of us right now. It would turn our lives upside down and could literally leave one or both of us homeless.

Lol...........glad to see that the important things are keeping you together

[Apoc]

Originally Posted by Triple

Just for the record, I have spoken with my wife about having a vasectomy. She said she would divorce me if I went through with it.

Yet she knew before they married.

Add in financial difficulty, another reason to need to go 'hunting with friends for a week' in the near future... Bills are piled high, and she wants a child. A real genius. Like reasoning with the unreasonable.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by z06boy

Well at least you didn't kill her when you first heard the great news.

Man that had to be a trip to deal with for both of you but you definitely seem like the kind of guy that can jump up...dust yourself off and say...NEXT !!!!

Yea it was surreal... I got off the plane, took a cab to my on post housing. Noticed all of the cars around the house..walked in, two MPs and a house full of people,wife looked like a lower case "b". She said, "I'm sorry"... I looked at her, picked up my duffel. Walked out, got a ride from a MP to the barracks. Got HAMMERED!!!

[the chi]

Originally Posted by Triple

a) it probably won't be amicable

b) if we have to live separately, we will have to secure less expensive housing, but in this market we will not be able to sell our current home

c) she can leave once I can afford to refinance the home by myself

d) which means she can never leave

e) and I hate kids

Sounds like my divorce. Is amazing what you can do if you have to man, thats all I have to say. If you're young, you can bounce back from bad credit if you dump the house, and in these economic times, people are very willing to do that or attempt to short sell, etc. Or, if you plan on staying in the area, get the divorce, have her sign over the title to you, get roommates.

[Trip]

Wow, this thread got far worse. I love it. Makes me so happy I take my relationship advice from TWFix.

[HurricaneHeather]

We just need a couple more posts to get to 200...we can do it folks! Quick, someone get butt hurt!

[pauldun170]

Originally Posted by Triple

a) it probably won't be amicable

b) if we have to live separately, we will have to secure less expensive housing, but in this market we will not be able to sell our current home

c) she can leave once I can afford to refinance the home by myself

d) which means she can never leave

e) and I hate kids

Prepare for divorce
Get the vasectomy asap.