Kind of a win... - Page 3

TommyHotWheel · 06-02-2010, 03:14 AM

13 and 9.

the chi · 06-02-2010, 09:38 AM

Thats great Tommy!! At least its a start in the right direction. I'd have to say Im more pleased with the fact that your daughter now knows you werent lying and she has proof against her mothers allegations when she starts trash talking you. It sucks for your daughter to know her mom is a liar, but will probably go a long way towards repairing your relationship with her.

ontwo · 06-02-2010, 10:30 AM

Damn dude. I can appreciate your situation. It's really hard being away from your kids. That last part about the cell phone really got me. Congrats on the new orders. Good luck with the new relationship you get with your kids.

shmike · 06-02-2010, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by The Chi

Thats great Tommy!! At least its a start in the right direction. I'd have to say Im more pleased with the fact that your daughter now knows you werent lying and she has proof against her mothers allegations when she starts trash talking you. It sucks for your daughter to know her mom is a liar, but will probably go a long way towards repairing your relationship with her.

I agree 100%.

When I saw this:

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Originally Posted by TommyHotWheel

Now today I called my daughter, we talked as much as we could and at the end of our conversation, she says, 'Daddy, guess what, we went to our storage and I found the phones you said you sent us that we never got...Mommy had them packed away! Lets get one set up so we can use it.' I feel so much better now. Sorry for the rant, but I need to get it out.

...I nearly lost it. It looks as though your daughter can see that some if not all of the crap your ex has been feeding her is BS. That is a HUGE win in my book!

TommyHotWheel · 06-02-2010, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by shmike

I agree 100%.

When I saw this:

...I nearly lost it. It looks as though your daughter can see that some if not all of the crap your ex has been feeding her is BS. That is a HUGE win in my book!

Yep...the tears and the smiles were both right there.

Rider · 06-02-2010, 10:48 AM

Congrats on a small but very important victory. I hate when i hear stories about a parent who lies to their kids to keep the non custodial parent out of their lives. Sucks for everyone involved.

Hopefully the Michigan court will punch that cunt in the ovaries for you.

goof2 · 06-02-2010, 12:58 PM

Enjoy the time you had to fight to get with them. Take this for what it is worth since I am not a parent, but hate your ex-wife the months you don't have your kids. For the weeks they are with you try and let as much of that go as possible. Kids are intuitive. They will "read" the differences between you and their mom. I'm guessing you already know all this but I thought it should be said regardless.

azoomm · 06-02-2010, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by goof2

Enjoy the time you had to fight to get with them. Take this for what it is worth since I am not a parent, but hate your ex-wife the months you don't have your kids. For the weeks they are with you try and let as much of that go as possible. Kids are intuitive. They will "read" the differences between you and their mom. I'm guessing you already know all this but I thought it should be said regardless.

I agree with most of this. The part I don't agree with is the hate. The best revenge is living well. Keep doing what you're doing.

RACER X · 06-02-2010, 02:25 PM

congrats man!

Avatard · 06-02-2010, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by TommyHotWheel

Now today I called my daughter, we talked as much as we could and at the end of our conversation, she says, 'Daddy, guess what, we went to our storage and I found the phones you said you sent us that we never got...Mommy had them packed away! Lets get one set up so we can use it.'

That's gold, right there. That's the win, Tommy, not that court shit.

That's the win, right there. Your kid learning the truth, and wanting to reach out to you.

Brought me to tears, but then again, I've ridden this rodeo before.

Congrats, brother.

06-02-2010, 03:14 AM	#21
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06-02-2010, 10:30 AM	#23
ontwo Designated Drinker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: shitville Moto: 2009 ZX6R Posts: 1,661	Damn dude. I can appreciate your situation. It's really hard being away from your kids. That last part about the cell phone really got me. Congrats on the new orders. Good luck with the new relationship you get with your kids. __________________

06-02-2010, 02:25 PM	#29
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06-02-2010, 10:48 AM	#26
Rider Moto GP Star Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 12,156	Congrats on a small but very important victory. I hate when i hear stories about a parent who lies to their kids to keep the non custodial parent out of their lives. Sucks for everyone involved. Hopefully the Michigan court will punch that cunt in the ovaries for you.

06-02-2010, 12:58 PM	#27
goof2 AMA Supersport Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 4,756	Enjoy the time you had to fight to get with them. Take this for what it is worth since I am not a parent, but hate your ex-wife the months you don't have your kids. For the weeks they are with you try and let as much of that go as possible. Kids are intuitive. They will "read" the differences between you and their mom. I'm guessing you already know all this but I thought it should be said regardless.