Ladies, how much of this is true? - Page 8

HokieDNA01 · 12-21-2009, 07:05 PM

I think women can be trusted more to hang out with men because women can be friends with guys without being sexually attracted to them. Men are usually sexually attracted to their female friends. I didn't make this up....this was a man made statement.

Captain Morgan · 12-21-2009, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

I think women can be trusted more to hang out with men because women can be friends with guys without being sexually attracted to them. Men are usually sexually attracted to their female friends. I didn't make this up....this was a man made statement.

And it's usually true.

Particle Man · 12-21-2009, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

I think women can be trusted more to hang out with men because women can be friends with guys without being sexually attracted to them. Men are usually sexually attracted to their female friends. I didn't make this up....this was a man made statement.

we can't help it that we like boobs

racedoll · 12-21-2009, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by defector

What exactly is controlling a relationship? Aren't relationships a 2 way street?Both parties can be completely happy without one or the other having "control".

Thank you!

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Originally Posted by TIGGER

There is no such thing as an equal relationship. Someone always gives more/gets more. Someone always has the final say. That includes friendships, family, marriages, work, you name it. If you have two people with "equal" say and they want something different, how will it ever be resolved? Someone has to give in, usually the "weaker" partner.

It is a give and take. Like Chi says below, one time it might be 90/10 another might be 70/30.

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Originally Posted by The Chi

Equal doesnt equate to 50/50 on everything. Some things will be 70/30 or 90/10 based on the compromises that couples make, that doesnt mean they arent equals and dont have the same rights as individuals in the relationship.

Homeslice · 12-21-2009, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by The Chi

As a woman I never understood the "respond with scorn". If some guy has the balls to compliment or ask out a total stranger, the least a lady can do is thank him for the effort and be polite. If a guy is being a jerk, thats different, obviously.

A lot of women adopt an "aloof" attitude that comes across as if they're too good for you, when in reality it's because they don't have the confidence to turn down a man politely.......So they just avoid talking to those men altogether.

The best women are those who aren't afraid to be friendly with any guy, even ones who they aren't attracted to.........Because they know that even if he asks her out, she has the communication skills to decline clearly yet politely, without offending him.

Dnyce · 12-21-2009, 10:15 PM

being equal doesnt really work, compromising does. not the same, but if both parties are happy, who gives a shit

anthonyk · 12-22-2009, 01:51 AM

Splitting everything 50/50 would be dumb. I didn't want to marry myself. There are plenty of things I do that my wife doesn't, and vice versa. Plenty of decisions that one of us makes, and the other doesn't. Equal doesn't mean we do the exact same things.

Sean · 12-22-2009, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by HokieDNA01

I think women can be trusted more to hang out with men because women can be friends with guys without being sexually attracted to them. Men are usually sexually attracted to their female friends. I didn't make this up....this was a man made statement.

I find girls insecurity generally renders them unable to be friends with guys. But hey what do I know?

Tmall · 12-22-2009, 08:40 AM

Am I an ass because I refuse to cover my girlfriends share?

She thinks she pays too much, and I say she doesn't pay enough. She works a lot, me not so much.

She says she tries to help out around the house, as do I.
And she uses my car and the only money I ever see for that is the occasional 20 in fuel.

She thinks this is unfair. Even though she doesn't even pay 2/5. And now she wants to pay even less, and I refuse.

I've told her, I can have a roomate who pays me more and then I don't have to worry about them at all. Thing is, she'd have to find her own place, and its hard to find a place for 600 all inclusive like she gets here.

What do you all think? Am I charging her top much?

Tmall · 12-22-2009, 08:42 AM

Ps, I just dropped over 2000 on car insurance, car repair, and heating oil. And ill never see a dime for any of it. During the holiday season I might add.

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12-22-2009, 01:51 AM	#77
anthonyk WERA White Plate Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Austin, TX Moto: '01 Aprilia Falco Posts: 1,041	Splitting everything 50/50 would be dumb. I didn't want to marry myself. There are plenty of things I do that my wife doesn't, and vice versa. Plenty of decisions that one of us makes, and the other doesn't. Equal doesn't mean we do the exact same things.

12-22-2009, 08:40 AM	#79
Tmall Aspiring Rapper Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Halifax, NS Moto: '12 CB1000R Posts: 3,569	Am I an ass because I refuse to cover my girlfriends share? She thinks she pays too much, and I say she doesn't pay enough. She works a lot, me not so much. She says she tries to help out around the house, as do I. And she uses my car and the only money I ever see for that is the occasional 20 in fuel. She thinks this is unfair. Even though she doesn't even pay 2/5. And now she wants to pay even less, and I refuse. I've told her, I can have a roomate who pays me more and then I don't have to worry about them at all. Thing is, she'd have to find her own place, and its hard to find a place for 600 all inclusive like she gets here. What do you all think? Am I charging her top much?

12-22-2009, 08:42 AM	#80
Tmall Aspiring Rapper Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Halifax, NS Moto: '12 CB1000R Posts: 3,569	Ps, I just dropped over 2000 on car insurance, car repair, and heating oil. And ill never see a dime for any of it. During the holiday season I might add.