age/women

[Papa_Complex]

Originally Posted by CrazyKell

Twice.

Likes the sound of his voice. I STILL want to have him remind me how old he is. His 'advice' sounds remarkably like my game plan when I was 18-20. It works too (on girls who are 18-20).

[CrazyKell]

Originally Posted by Homeslice

The "be an asshole" works until, say, age 28. After then, most quality women don't bother putting up with that anymore.

Originally Posted by Papa_Complex

Likes the sound of his voice. I STILL want to have him remind me how old he is. His 'advice' sounds remarkably like my game plan when I was 18-20. It works too (on girls who are 18-20).

Exactly! I don't know when exactly I stopped putting up with that shit but I don't. I don't want to date an asshole. If he's an asshole we don't date. I don't lose sleep over it....I just walk away.

[Homeslice]

I know what you meant. I still contend that after a certain age, most women don't have the time or mental energy to waste on someone who blows them off or treats them like ass. It's also because in most cases their self-esteem has increased compared to their younger years.

[CrazyKell]

Originally Posted by Triple

The keys here are subtlety and timing.



An illusion, don't buy it.

You killed it bruv!

[the chi]

Originally Posted by Homeslice

I know what you meant. I still contend that after a certain age, most women don't have the time or mental energy to waste on someone who blows them off or treats them like ass. It's also because in most cases their self-esteem has increased compared to their younger years.

DING DING!! We have a winner. Most women, by the time they reach a certain age have ascertained WHO they are, WHAT they want, and have established their own brand of crazy that meets their needs and eventually will meet a man (if they so choose) who will love that about her. They dont have time for silly games or the energy and patience!

Originally Posted by Triple

An illusion, don't buy it.

While this holds true for some women, they tend to be the immature and unseasoned, naive, and/or game players themselves.

[the chi]

Further, while I hate to agree, since I am one of those independent women that can take care of herself, there is NOTHING more attractive than a man who has his act together. He knows who he is, what he wants, is already settled and comfortable with himself and his life. And is able to/has room/ready to care for another person. While we may not like it, a womans natural instinct is to look for a male that can take care of her.

[R6Chick]

Originally Posted by The Chi

Further, while I hate to agree, since I am one of those independent women that can take care of herself, there is NOTHING more attractive than a man who has his act together. He knows who he is, what he wants, is already settled and comfortable with himself and his life. And is able to/has room/ready to care for another person. While we may not like it, a womans natural instinct is to look for a male that can take care of her.

That's true, we don't want to be another mommy for a grown man.

[the chi]

Originally Posted by Triple

I use the term "game" very loosely. I do not consider myself a player by any means. My suggestions come naturally to people who are selfish, and in most respects, I am a selfish person.

Honesty is another refreshing quality!

[Papa_Complex]

Originally Posted by R6Chick

That's true, we don't want to be another mommy for a grown man.

Well there's your mistake, right there. We men only grow PHYSICALLY.

[Amorok]

Wow, there's a lot of knowledge in this thread. Some of it's even true.

Give up on finding a girl who isn't nuts. Just find one you can stand. That or get a dog who likes peanut butter.