Ladies, how much of this is true?

[Tmall]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

So it's OK if you have multiple g/fs, but the those of us who have been married more than once are losers?

Shame on you.

Not to split hairs, but that's exactly how it's supposed to be done. You get the courtin' out of the way, then ya get hitched for life. You're supposed to have multiple bf/gf for that very reason. It's so you don't marry the first one that comes along and then get divorced.

[Fleck750]

Originally Posted by Tmall

Not to split hairs, but that's exactly how it's supposed to be done. You get the courtin' out of the way, then ya get hitched for life. You're supposed to have multiple bf/gf for that very reason. It's so you don't marry the first one that comes along and then get divorced.

Point made. But have met many people that spend decades looking for the "right one". Some people can never be happy no matter how many they date. Not that this applies to Tigger.

But those of us who have been married more than once were at least brave/stupid enough to give the other sex another chance.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Tmall

Not to split hairs, but that's exactly how it's supposed to be done. You get the courtin' out of the way, then ya get hitched for life. You're supposed to have multiple bf/gf for that very reason. It's so you don't marry the first one that comes along and then get divorced.

That's what I have actually tried to tell this guy I know just the other day. He's marrying a girl that he has only dated for a couple months AND he's leaving for the Army in 6 months...not to mention that this chick is a total slut- the villiage bicycle type. Sucker.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

Point made. But have met many people that spend decades looking for the "right one". Some people can never be happy no matter how many they date. Not that this applies to Tigger.

But those of us who have been married more than once were at least brave/stupid enough to give the other sex another chance.

Hey, I agree with you. What you don't know is that I was married once and engaged twice more, one died and the other cheated... one, two, three strikes and I'm out of here...

[Papa_Complex]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

Point made. But have met many people that spend decades looking for the "right one". Some people can never be happy no matter how many they date. Not that this applies to Tigger.

But those of us who have been married more than once were at least brave/stupid enough to give the other sex another chance.

The "right one" is a two way street. I'm 46; never married. Got close in my 20s (her idea) and it didn't happen (her idea also). I've met a couple of women over the years that I thought I could be happy with but since they didn't feel the same way, nothing ever came of it.

Keep in mind that most of the people who publish books on how to have the perfect relationship have had a lot of practise at it, with multiple partners

[Fleck750]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Hey, I agree with you. What you don't know is that I was married once and engaged twice more, one died and the other cheated... one, two, three strikes and I'm out of here...

I understand as the years go by that it gets harder to trust and believe that the right one is out there. I won't do it again, just isn't worth the hassle.

I shouldn't have been so harsh in judging you, but it's the internet and I can.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

I understand as the years go that it gets harder to trust and believe that the right is out there. I won't do it again, just isn't worth the hassle.

I shouldn't have been so harsh in judging you, but it's the internet and I can.

That's true.

[CrazyKell]

Originally Posted by Fleck750

But those of us who have been married more than once were at least brave/stupid enough to give the other sex another chance.

I find it hard to believe that because I've never been married I've never given the other sex a chance. (according to your logic).


Oh and men....DRAMA!!!! It's up front drama....but it's drama!

[anthonyk]

LOL, goddamn some of you are bitter. Amorok I knew about, but wowsa there's a bunch more of you!

I'm gonna go hang out over here in my first wife fantasy land, and wait for the hammer to finally drop so y'all can say you told me so.

[Fleck750]

Originally Posted by CrazyKell

I find it hard to believe that because I've never been married I've never given the other sex a chance. (according to your logic).


Oh and men....DRAMA!!!! It's up front drama....but it's drama!

I don't think you are in your 40's yet, either.

But some people just know that they like themselves enough, don't want children and are happier without a partner.