So I've been riding for three weeks now

[karl_1052]

Originally Posted by i2iSTUDIOS

What's there to be intimidated by, riding is easy. How does relax give me any more information how better posture to keep weight off of my wrist?

if you are constantly worried about what gear you are in, then you are not relaxed. People have been riding bikes for over 100 years without gear indicators.
It will all come with seat time, that is the only thing that will help you out. Just be careful that you don't get too confident too quickly.