German Shepherds + Kids

neebelung · 12-01-2008, 04:47 PM

A question for those of you with German Shepherds and Kids (or if you know anyone with both):

What's your take on socializing a G.S. with your kids? Do you think it's better to have the kids first, then get the dog (so as to avoid the dog becoming jealous of the new, noisy arrival)? Or is it possible to have the dog for a couple years and then gently introduce them to children once they come along?

With a lot of dog breeds (i.e. Retrievers, Labs, etc...) I don't think it would matter, but I know G.S.'s can be protective, so I wonder if there's a "best" order in which to do this.

JoJoYZF · 12-01-2008, 04:50 PM

I can only help a little but my dog came well after me and my sister were bron with no problems. My dog is also a german shepard mix though, so Im not positive how well a pure bred would get along with them. My dog would be absolutely no problem with new children, hes absolutely great with kids.

Ninjakel · 12-01-2008, 04:51 PM

honestly, I think the temperment of the GS comes into play. There are very "hot" dogs and there are mellow dogs. I think if you get a pup from a reputable breeder, and its been health tested, Xrayed, parents lineage, you'll get a great pup. As long as you socialize it and properly train it in obed, and advanced training.

I grew up with a GSD and a Pit Bull. Both were excellent dogs.

It takes a LOT of working with the dog to get it to where he/she needs to be.

But, then again, I am a huge proponent of its not the dog, its the owner.

neebelung · 12-01-2008, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninjakel

honestly, I think the temperment of the GS comes into play. There are very "hot" dogs and there are mellow dogs. I think if you get a pup from a reputable breeder, and its been health tested, Xrayed, parents lineage, you'll get a great pup. As long as you socialize it and properly train it in obed, and advanced training.

I grew up with a GSD and a Pit Bull. Both were excellent dogs.

It takes a LOT of working with the dog to get it to where he/she needs to be.

But, then again, I am a huge proponent of its not the dog, its the owner.

The breeder we're looking at is in up in Ohio (not that that matters, I just mean we're willing to travel for a reputable breeder), and they have a laundry list of things they check for/certify against, X-rays, etc... (and we met a local guy who got a pup from them and had nothing but great things to say about them, how they socialize the dogs, etc...).

I'm in absolute agreement that it's the owner who shapes the temperament of the dog, but I still want to make sure we do all we can to make sure it all goes as "right" as possible (and if that means waiting to get the dog until after we've had kids, then we're willing to do that).

There is a dog training school right down the road from us, however, that specializes in GSDs, so we'd probably look into some serious training (beyond puppy school), too.

the chi · 12-01-2008, 04:59 PM

Im wth kel, dogs are like people, each different and it is the owners responsibility to shape the dog.

I would think if you properly socialize and train the dog, he will be fine if kids come later, but it is a full time job for such a large animal.

Ive heard both good and bad on both sides, but being a dog lover like I am, Id say go for the dog and train it well and youll have no worries!

Ducati Diva · 12-01-2008, 05:01 PM

My german shepard/husky mix is a big chicken. He seems to be scared of everything and everybody. My son brought him home at eight weeks so no abuse. We can't figure his temperment out, some have said german shepards are skidish

if they are I wouldn't recommend them as a kid friendly dog. He is a loving dog just can't handle the noise or sudden movement of kids.

Mr Lefty · 12-01-2008, 05:15 PM

I say get different kids to match your dog

smileyman · 12-01-2008, 05:21 PM

For those with kids getting a new dog I suggest gradual introduction...First slather the children in some form of gravy (depends on the breed) or maybe just rub them down vigorously with bacon or ham, then turn them out into the yard with the new pet. Sometimes it helps to prep your animal by shocking it several times with a taser or maybe chase him with your lawn tractor.

Leave them alone for a few hours and give them time to bond.

After a few of these introductions your kids and your new pet will have fond feelings of each other and lifelong memories to cherish.

cuttle · 12-01-2008, 05:28 PM

Unless you want to wait till your (future) kids are older, start with the dog. A young dog and toddlers aren't a good match, dogs can be "nippy" as puppies and can be pretty rough while playing.

So, get the dog first, and in case you can't handle a dog, skip the kids.

Particle Man · 12-01-2008, 08:06 PM

my german shepherd loved kids...

... especially with a side of gravy

12-01-2008, 04:47 PM	#1
neebelung Ornery, scandalous & evil Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Jacksonville, FL Moto: 2004 Scarlet R1 Posts: 5,962	German Shepherds + Kids A question for those of you with German Shepherds and Kids (or if you know anyone with both): What's your take on socializing a G.S. with your kids? Do you think it's better to have the kids first, then get the dog (so as to avoid the dog becoming jealous of the new, noisy arrival)? Or is it possible to have the dog for a couple years and then gently introduce them to children once they come along? With a lot of dog breeds (i.e. Retrievers, Labs, etc...) I don't think it would matter, but I know G.S.'s can be protective, so I wonder if there's a "best" order in which to do this.

12-01-2008, 04:51 PM	#3
Ninjakel Post whorette Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South Florida Moto: 2006 GSXR 600- Posts: 3,992	honestly, I think the temperment of the GS comes into play. There are very "hot" dogs and there are mellow dogs. I think if you get a pup from a reputable breeder, and its been health tested, Xrayed, parents lineage, you'll get a great pup. As long as you socialize it and properly train it in obed, and advanced training. I grew up with a GSD and a Pit Bull. Both were excellent dogs. It takes a LOT of working with the dog to get it to where he/she needs to be. But, then again, I am a huge proponent of its not the dog, its the owner. __________________ I'm gonna punch you in the ovary, that's what I'm gonna do. A straight shot. Right to the babymaker. --Ron Burgundy-- Anchorman

12-01-2008, 05:01 PM	#6
Ducati Diva just learning Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: western nc Moto: 1996 M900 Posts: 1,348	My german shepard/husky mix is a big chicken. He seems to be scared of everything and everybody. My son brought him home at eight weeks so no abuse. We can't figure his temperment out, some have said german shepards are skidish if they are I wouldn't recommend them as a kid friendly dog. He is a loving dog just can't handle the noise or sudden movement of kids. __________________ Todays mighty oak is just yesterdays nut who stood it's ground!

12-01-2008, 05:21 PM	#8
smileyman White Trash Hero Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: NW Arkansas Moto: Buell 1125R Porco Rosso Edition Posts: 4,895	For those with kids getting a new dog I suggest gradual introduction...First slather the children in some form of gravy (depends on the breed) or maybe just rub them down vigorously with bacon or ham, then turn them out into the yard with the new pet. Sometimes it helps to prep your animal by shocking it several times with a taser or maybe chase him with your lawn tractor. Leave them alone for a few hours and give them time to bond. After a few of these introductions your kids and your new pet will have fond feelings of each other and lifelong memories to cherish. __________________ Arkriders.com To be the best you must first be willing to risk the worst!

12-01-2008, 05:28 PM	#9
cuttle now available w/o fish Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: in a holler Moto: DR650, Morini, 1/2 M900ie Posts: 820	Unless you want to wait till your (future) kids are older, start with the dog. A young dog and toddlers aren't a good match, dogs can be "nippy" as puppies and can be pretty rough while playing. So, get the dog first, and in case you can't handle a dog, skip the kids. __________________ "Typo's are very importand to al written form. It gives the reader something to look for soo they arenâ€™t distrackted by the total lack of kontend in your writing's." - R. K. Milholland

12-01-2008, 04:50 PM	#2
JoJoYZF Bring on the Zombies! Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Cleveland Moto: 2000 Yamaha YZF600R Posts: 2,691	I can only help a little but my dog came well after me and my sister were bron with no problems. My dog is also a german shepard mix though, so Im not positive how well a pure bred would get along with them. My dog would be absolutely no problem with new children, hes absolutely great with kids.

12-01-2008, 05:15 PM	#7
Mr Lefty TWFix Legend Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Denver CO Moto: 01 BMW F650GS Dakar Posts: 15,677	I say get different kids to match your dog

12-01-2008, 08:06 PM	#10
Particle Man Custom User Title Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Central NY Moto: 2003 SV650S Posts: 14,959	my german shepherd loved kids... ... especially with a side of gravy __________________ I'm not "fat." I'm "Enlarged to show texture." Handle every stressful situation like a DOG: If you can't eat it or hump it, pi$$ on it & walk away.